One of the most unnecessary things in life is a holding a grudge. Somethings in life are going to go your way and others are not. In life you are going to feel an array of negative emotions: upset, anger, disappointment, etc... the key to it all is how you handle those feelings.
The character traits I value are positive ones. I find things like being positive and understanding as important. I appreciate attributes like being supportive and encouraging to ones like stubborn and stand-offish. Choose the attribute set you would rather have.
You can blame people for your emotions or you can just let them go. People do make mistakes and it's completely ok not to like everyone, but you are wasting your energy when holding a grudge. If it's a waste of your time, then why do it? The people who deserve my support I give one hundred percent to... the others are just uncredited extras in my life. They don't influence my life nor do I waste my time being mad at them. Time is too important to waste.
I've often said that forgiveness isn't a character trait of the weak, rather it's sign of strength. Spend your time and energy on the people who are worth it and not on the people who aren't.
Keep smiling everyone. Appreciate the sunshine when you can and always stay thirsty and strive for more...
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