Perception is reality and change is inevitable. It's not simply the changes within ourselves, but also the changes in others, that allow us to grow as individuals. As others grow and blossom, our reaction to these change help shape us. Therefore their growth may alter you.
Everyone has a different interpretation of life. Our eyes do not see... they simply absorb photons. Our ears do not hear... they simply receive pressure waves. It's our brain that interprets these signals.
When other people grow, it's up to us to accept it. The person who you once viewed in one manner may no longer be the person you envision. The other person may have changed and grew so your perception of them is now false. If the person you once viewed as needy, no long relies on you, it's up to you to accept the change in the relationship because even if you know it or not, it has changed.
Our brains interprets our stimuli, but our brains are simply a body part. Our thoughts and actions are derived from our minds. It's our minds that influence our decisions... it our minds that give us our perception.
Change is not easy for everyone to accept. Some people value the past or their perception of the past too much to want it changed. Some people live in an environment or culture based on tradition and are simple content with their existing comfort. Others surround themselves with like-minded people who are rigid and are unwilling to change.
Relationships of every kind are dynamic. Expand your mind and allow for change. Have a wonderful day everyone and always remember to keep smiling...
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it's not the moment or the location... it's the mind
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